Name the gap
Separate what you already know from the role, fear, obligation, or consequence that keeps interrupting action.
For the Black woman who already knows
The problem is not that you do not know. It is that every time you move, somebody’s access, expectations, or comfort may change—so you reopen the decision and call it confusion.
A guided workbook to help you name what keeps interrupting action, count the cost of postponing, and plan one observable move within 72 hours.
Get the Workbook — $4784-page guided PDF · immediate delivery by email · secure Stripe checkout
The loop beneath the decision
You know the conversation you need to have. The boundary you need to set. The responsibility that no longer belongs to you. The pattern that has already cost too much.
But you keep returning to the same question—hoping one more thought, one more conversation, or one more week will make the consequence disappear.
The decision may not need more time. It may need protection.
What changes inside the workbook
Separate what you already know from the role, fear, obligation, or consequence that keeps interrupting action.
See what indecision has required from your energy, time, money, relationships, and trust in yourself.
Turn the decision into one observable 72-Hour Move, then use what happens next as evidence—not a verdict on you.
Use it after the move to record evidence and decide what protection comes next.
A look inside
The interior work is intentionally blurred here. You receive the complete 84-page workbook immediately after purchase.
PART II
PART III
PART V
PART VI
What you leave with
This workbook does not ask you to perform confidence before you have it. It helps you rebuild trust in yourself by making one clear decision, taking one observable action, and seeing what is actually true afterward.
Meet the creator
Elizabeth McCoy is an Executive Rest Strategist, Army veteran, and the Founder & CEO of Luxury Recharge Collective.
For more than a decade, she has helped women understand the patterns beneath their decisions—where trauma, obligation, identity, cultural expectation, and exhaustion can quietly override what they already know.
Her work sits at the intersection of behavioral insight, psychological safety, executive wellbeing, and the lived reality of high-achieving Black women. She helps women reclaim the woman they lost on the climb—without losing what they have built.
Featured on ABC13
Elizabeth is recognized for naming what conventional burnout conversations miss: Black women are rarely exhausted because they lack discipline or insight. They are exhausted because entire systems have been allowed to depend on their capacity.
I KNOW, BUT...™ brings that same depth into a private, structured process: a way to name the pattern, make the decision, take an observable action, and protect what the evidence asks of you next.
Before you begin
I KNOW, BUT...™ is an 84-page guided PDF. Your purchase is a digital workbook, not a physical book.
Your workbook is emailed immediately after payment. Enter the email where you want your workbook at checkout.
Begin with the decision you are most tired of reopening. Work through the pages in order. When you reach the 72-Hour Move, take the action before completing the evidence review.
The 72-Hour Move focuses on one observable action. Work through the pages in order, then use the evidence review after taking that action.
This is a guided educational tool. It does not replace crisis, legal, medical, or individualized mental-health support.
Your next move does not have to be perfect
Begin with the decision you are most tired of reopening. Work through the pages in order. When you reach the 72-Hour Move, take the action before completing the evidence review.
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